Friday, March 20, 2020

Innocence lost in time and ages

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Just words for today.

Oxymoron
- I think I am a perfect example of it.

Inequality
- is evil! Inequality is what makes this world a fair game.

The world
- is NOT in your books and maps. It is beyond the window out there, waiting for you to discover!

I was
- a realist, a free-thinker, music-lover, sports guy, math freak, food indulgent-er, eccentric and weird, loves games and smile on people's face.

破釜沉舟
- You do, or you die.


Battle
- Fight the contradiction with your own style. Or lost yourself in the times of ages.

Be Strong
- and be stronger than your strongest excuse!

Success
- felt better earned, not given.


Time
- flies, but certain feeling stays. And such is my attitude.




..Almost 5 years past. Gawsh.






Thursday, June 23, 2016

《识人七法》

志、变、识、勇、性、廉、信

问之以是非而观其志;
穷之以辞辩而观其变;
咨之以计谋而观其识;
告之以祸难而观其勇;
醉之以酒而观其性;
临之以利而观其廉;
期之以事而观其信。


Monday, June 13, 2016

If you can read that far...

I believe this is a world full of distraction.
One that feeds on your inaction.
Everyone wanted to have a dream,
to be like others, be kings and queens.
Some struggled to prove their identity,
while some others creates new personality.
Everyone thinks they have the right conviction,
and with that, this will be their life commitment.
Some cares only about progression,
while some just wants more attention.
We wanted to be always happy-go-lucky,
but sometimes, you really can't afford to be lazy.
While you may define your life goal differently,
Why must we only focus in one thing only?
It may seems that, this is the way to be,
but can't we thrive, for everything there is to see.
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So why not?
Valedictorian who sports daily,
Attention-seeker who cares kindly,
Muscle-builder who reads mindfully,
Kids who learn patiently,
Narcissist who talks humbly,
or maybe,
Facebooker who treats me nice food seriously.
All of us started with choices we didn't make; your name, your parents, your race, your everything there is to be decided by yourselves.
While we can always improvise what we already have instead of changing it, your beliefs, your names, your savings, your friends, etc etc, Why not always go for more? Unless you are already in your own sweet little comfort bubble, then please do not forget that making one choice doesn't always necessarily means that you have to forgo others.
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I works like zombie,
laughs like crazy,
sports weekly,
nerds daily,
tries hardly,
falls deeply,
selfishly,
talkatively,
trying to be the best of myself.
I make choices that I needed to, because I want to.
If I can't beat the strong, I will, join the strong.
No matter I will end up strong, or end up wrong,
I am, song leong.
I am, July's gladiolz.
I am, going to sleep soon.
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There's nothing different about me, everything I said above, is all me. But you who are reading this, top students, top cosers, managers, supervisors, engineers doctors auditors (sorry I no lawyer friend here deal with it)...
Live your life to the fullest, by walking in more than one way.
I may always be ignoring heroes wannabe like u all, but that doesn't mean you can't be more than what you are now.
Guys who acts like mature boi, go get a girl for real, works for real, get a real commitment,
Girls who act like they are dead serious in their life,
..I have no comments coz girls are scary.
Just, care about ur health while u care too much about ur works n studies;
care about your brain content while u care too much about ur reputation,
care about ur friends and families while u care too much about being successful YOLO-er,
care about being a real woman a real guy a real son or daughter, whoever you are; walks proudly, knowing that you are always on the right tracks to be someone who shines in more than one way.
Strive.
Kay?
Then belanja me makan,
kay kay?

Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Who are you? (Part II)

Which one are you?

Which one hits you? Did you lost the person you loved the most and only left with memories? Did you think you became stronger just because you get over Someone? Talk about the benefit of free-thinking, sometimes it has no difference than terrorist -- both lives in their own world and thinks that their thought Matters.

Are you attention seeker who wanted your friends to know that you are doing very, very fine? (blah go travel, go eat, go cafe, go do 'something crazy', go join all the latest hipster event and the trends happening on the town..)

Are you the career obsessed 'leader' or just slaves who are barely getting paid for what you contributed? Oh wait, both are just the same.
Can't you feed your own goatdem mouth and just be happy about it?

Or are you lost? Because sometimes finding a meaning and a goal in life without being negatively pervaded by the thoughts of the people around you just seems so, difficult? Go get a laif! Get....oh wait, that's exactly what I am now o_o sheetz its 130am! goodnight miao!


..I mean, ciao!

but seriously, think about it. #FoodForThought #NeverEnding #SelfReflection #StandAlone

Are you special? (Part I)

Scroll down to the last part for summary kay O.O

Have I ever tell you anecdotes about my life? About all the little things that matters, all the risk taken, the youth gambled, and the life that I missed out in order to take the road less taken. Sounds a bit familiar to your life perhaps?

Whether you are a fervid hobbyist who is destined to carry the flag of #YOLO legacy, or you are one whose youth had been impoverished by hours and nights of career building. Have you ever wondered whether all these history-making moment are not exactly just an excuse for us to escape boredom and loneliness?

Did we followed the footpath of general social media, to capture all the beauty of cafes, to drink all the good coffees in the world, to do all the extreme sports to feel unique, to travel to different country in search of life, to be the hipster who are ever so ready to take on the world, but are never ready to take on a commitment. A mortgage, marriage, career plan, children, the dreams of not yours but the one who raised you up -- your very own parents.

Oh or perhaps you are the one on the other shore -- ka-ching! nuff' said.
Money buys time, time to daydream, time to travel, time to spent with family, and it buys flight tickets too,
property, insurance, saving plans, and that includes your favorite watch or handbag.
Let's go with the simple formula and take the 'safer path', or we can pretend to be young by doing both! We can climb the corporate ladder, earn ample amount of income, and spent it as if we are random refugee who started poor and shook the world by accomplishing something great.

Anyhow, we just wanted to prove to ourselves that we are more than what we are.

But are we ever any less than what we are supposed to be?

Or if you are the dreamer who are lost, the faithful sailor of the Ship of fools, here's the question to be asketh, Does your emotion matters? Does your opinion matters? Does being perfect matters?




Me? I will still stubbornly hold into this principle, of sharing attitude but not emotion, sharing experience and wisdom but not self-opinion nor self-esteem, sharing a little thoughts in this article, and that's the best I can manage, for now.
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重点hidden here, that is if you are not the 'reader' type

TL;DR? (Too Long, Dont want to Read?)
Nah it's just random rambling of an old guy. That's all xD

Rant of the day: why does everyone let themselves be defined by anything else other than themselves? The society, the trends, the forcibly infused dreams, the artificial sense of proud and self-esteem, money, and... attention.
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Sunday, April 17, 2016

The Art of Happiness - Dalai Lama

Let's have a quick and simple reading trip to the world of the master of his own mind.
#RandomComment

“We need to learn how to want what we have NOT to have what we want in order to get steady and stable Happiness”
#Deep

“Although you may not always be able to avoid difficult situations,you can modify the extent to which you can suffer by how you choose to respond to the situation.” 
#Worksforme

“When life becomes too complicated and we feel overwhelmed, it’s often useful just to stand back and remind ourselves of our overall purpose, our overall goal. When faced with a feeling of stagnation and confusion, it may be helpful to take an hour, an afternoon, or even several days to simply reflect on what it is that will truly bring us happiness, and then reset our priorities on the basis of that. This can put our life back in proper context, allow a fresh perspective, and enable us to see which direction to take.” 
#Chillkay #OnlyfortheStressedoutOnes

“Self satisfaction alone cannot determine if a desire or action is positive or negative. The demarcation between a positive and a negative desire or action is not whether it gives you a immediate feeling of satisfaction, but whether it ultimately results in positive or negative consequences.” 
#Golden! #FirstworldHipsterproblem #Yoloisatrend

“I think that if one is seeking to build a truly satisfying relationship, the best way of bringing this about is to get to know the deeper nature of the person and relate to her or him on that level, instead of merely on the basis of superficial characteristics.”

“regret with dignity and grace.” 

“Compassion can be roughly defined in terms of a state of mind that is nonviolent, nonharming, and nonaggressive. It is a mental attitude based on the wish for others to be free of their suffering and is associated with a sense of commitment, responsibility, and respect towards others.” 

“By mobilizing our thoughts and practicing new ways of thinking, we can reshape our nerve cells and change the way our brains work.” 

“The psychoanalyst and social philosopher Erich Fromm claimed that humankind’s most basic fear is the threat of being separated from other humans. He believed that the experience of separateness, first encountered in infancy, is the source of all anxiety in human life. John Bowlby agreed, citing a good deal of experimental evidence and research to support the idea that separation from one’s caregivers – usually the mother or father – during the latter part of the first year of life inevitably creates fear and sadness in babies. He feels that separation and interpersonal loss are at the very roots of the human experiences of fear, sadness, and sorrow.” 

#Goodreads
for
#Selfimprovement

Saturday, January 30, 2016

一轮明月下的观点

宁静之夜中的公园, 倒映在湖畔的月光, 刷过树叶的风声, 携手散布的情侣, 玩乐的孩子们, 运动的健身狂; 这样的夜晚, 自然景观中, 偷懒的我, 活在当下。
#Twitter xD